Thursday, August 16, 2012

Time Well Spent



I have learned so much from this program about the early childhood program as a whole, children and the way they learn, the many influences that effect children and families, me and my ideas and biases.  One thing I learned from this program early on was how important play is to children.  This is their main pathway to learning, but what I find so interesting is how play and exploration is being taken out of the school settings.  A second lesson that I learned was the devastating effects that poverty has on children.  I had previously believed that it would be better to experience poverty as a younger child than as an older child because they would not know any better or even remember.  What I learned was that it is the opposite.  The effects of poverty are worse on young children due to lack of proper healthcare and malnutrition.  This causes learning delays and problems later in school.  It is never easy to live in poverty.  A third thing that I have learned from this program is that we all have biases that we are aware and unaware of.  This is nothing to be ashamed of but something that we must be aware of and possibly work on releasing.
The long-term goal that I have set for myself is to help children understand that we are all different and that it is ok because we all bring something different to the circle.  I want to help children fight the urge to hurt others through their words and actions.  I want to teach them and show them compassion.   
It seems like it should have been a longer journey, but having great colleagues and knowledgeable professors has made the journey easier.  There were many times when we bared our souls in the discussion boards and we knew that it was safe because we could trust that our secrets were safe with each other.  We supported each other through tough times as well as the good times.  Without the support and feedback from my colleagues through this course I am not sure I would have done as well as I did.  I say thank you to each and every one of you.  Remember we are all WILDFLOWERS.

WILDFLOWERS
Without our differences our world would be bland
Individuals need to be able to shine no matter what
Learn to accept each other’s culture, beliefs, and languages
Differently abled doesn’t mean they can’t
Follow your heart
Level the playing field with education
Open the mind to acceptance
Willingness to learn about others
Ears open to listen for clues and hurt hearts
Respect
Strong enough to stand up for others rights

2 comments:

  1. Leslie, I loved the poem.
    As, I have told other colleagues it has been a great pleasure going on this journey with you. It hasn't been easy but it has been a great learning experience. Good luck in your future endeavor.

    Tonetta Bogard- Marion

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  2. Leslie,
    I have worked with children who were impoverished and homeless. You are on point when you said you learned that the younger children suffer more. That is the reason, we do what we do to try to make the time they spend with us as enriching as possible.
    Leslie, I wish you every success in the future. Look for my name as a presenter at a NAEYC conference! That's on my bucket list.

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Personal Childhood Web

Mom-My mother
Influence: showed me a love of learning that has lasted a life time. She would have “Tea Parties” with me but insisted on real food not pretend. She would read to us each night and tuck us in. She showed her love and affection by being there and showing me how to make it on my own. Her impact on my life is ongoing. She is still guiding me to be a better and stronger person.

Dad: My birth father
Influence: taught me that continuing your education may be tough but is always worth the effort. He would take me on camping trips each summer and road trips to historical places. He always called me “sis”. His influence takes me to historical sites. I have an appetite for history.

Don: My step-dad (Dad)
Influence: taught me that hard work was important in life. He taught me how to drive my first stick shift. He moved me back and forth to college many times without question. He considered me his own and became my father when mine abandoned me. He still checks in on me and makes sure my head is on straight.

Grandma D: Paternal Grandmother
Influence: she taught me how to be a “proper” young lady. I remember how I should behave to this day. She showed me how to make ordinary everyday things into magical paths to the imaginary world. A refrigerator box could be a house, doctor’s office, fort, or a cave below hundreds of feet. She showed me how to cook and sew so I could be a good wife. Though she is not with me now I still can look at a plain item and imagine where it could lead me.

Grandma Z: Maternal Grandmother
Influence: taught me that women could be fierce and independent. She loved flowers and taught me a love of them as well.