Saturday, December 10, 2011

You can't have money because .....

One experience that I remember experiencing prejudice was when I first started college after high school.  I was registering for financial aid and waiting for the results.  I met with the financial aid officer and she told me that I did not qualify for much in the way of financial help.  She told me it was because I was white.  She said if I came back and was Native American, Black, or Hispanic she could help me. 
I was completely floored.  I could not believe that she just came right out and said that.  I know many people thought like that but never would say it out loud.  She was say that because I was white I did not need any help financially for school.  My parents had two children in college and one more on the way.  My parents were both teachers, we had no money.   I was upset and depressed because I would not be able to attend college at that time.  I was stuck in a minimum wage food service job that did not pay enough for me to even attend the community college. 
In this situation the financial aid system needs to change.  The need for help should be based not on race but on an individual needs assessment.  We fill them out every year, it is called the FASFA.  The financial aid system needs to look more closely at your ability to pay for school.

1 comment:

  1. Leslie,

    I had a similiar experience one time many years ago when I found myself in need of extra help. I had to move because the home I was renting was sold. I did not have money saved for a security deposit. I contacted a couple agencies which I was told could help. One agency gave me the run around for a long time. When I finally got through I was told I did not qualify. When I told them the agency which referred me said I did, she said there are not funds available for people like you. I asked what that meant and she said your not black or living in the projects. I was horrified! I was about to be homeless and did not qualify for help because I was not the right race. Thankfully when I told the first agency what happened they were able to help me. They told me they knew I would get turned down but had to get the denial letter in order to get their help. What a mess!

    For your situation I have to say how wrong that person was! Federal and state financial aid for college is not based on race at all but financial need, which at times is not enough for some people. I had run our of financial aid but still had a course to complete. With some creativity from an advisor I was able to graduate without taking that course. I think your financial aid person just did not want to put more effort into helping you!

    Meredith

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Personal Childhood Web

Mom-My mother
Influence: showed me a love of learning that has lasted a life time. She would have “Tea Parties” with me but insisted on real food not pretend. She would read to us each night and tuck us in. She showed her love and affection by being there and showing me how to make it on my own. Her impact on my life is ongoing. She is still guiding me to be a better and stronger person.

Dad: My birth father
Influence: taught me that continuing your education may be tough but is always worth the effort. He would take me on camping trips each summer and road trips to historical places. He always called me “sis”. His influence takes me to historical sites. I have an appetite for history.

Don: My step-dad (Dad)
Influence: taught me that hard work was important in life. He taught me how to drive my first stick shift. He moved me back and forth to college many times without question. He considered me his own and became my father when mine abandoned me. He still checks in on me and makes sure my head is on straight.

Grandma D: Paternal Grandmother
Influence: she taught me how to be a “proper” young lady. I remember how I should behave to this day. She showed me how to make ordinary everyday things into magical paths to the imaginary world. A refrigerator box could be a house, doctor’s office, fort, or a cave below hundreds of feet. She showed me how to cook and sew so I could be a good wife. Though she is not with me now I still can look at a plain item and imagine where it could lead me.

Grandma Z: Maternal Grandmother
Influence: taught me that women could be fierce and independent. She loved flowers and taught me a love of them as well.